IT’S YOUR GAIN WHEN SOMEONE CUTS TIES WITH YOU

To unexpectedly have someone decide to end paths or cut ties with you as if you’ve been abandoned is no easy thing to let go of at first. While it might feel like a loss for you and a gain for them, it’s actually a gain for you too.

Letting them go is a gain for you because it’s an opportunity to create space for someone new to cross your path.
Letting them go is a gain for you because it’s an opportunity to integrate the beautiful lessons you learned from being with them.
Letting them go is a gain for you because it’s an opportunity to reinvent yourself anew and define a new path for yourself.

Your ability to let go of your attachment to others serves as a reminder and is a testimony of how deeply integrated you are in your own value. To let go of someone you care for is to let them to do what’s best for themselves, even if that means you’re not a part of that path. Knowing you still have value and worth no matter the circumstance is always a gain for you, even if it’s in their absence.